Everybody, Everywear: Green with Envy
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[ Top row, from left: February 2012 / November 2011 / July 2011 // Second row, from left: November 2010 / January 2011 / February 2011 // Third row, from left: December 2010 / April 2011 / February 2011 ]
If I had had my act together today, I’d have (a) actually picked out a pair of green pants instead of continuing to endlessly search for the perfect one, (b) worn said pants and made it long enough into the day without getting baby spit-up on them to take photos, and (c) actually edited and posted said photos amid a blur of deadlines and an allergies-without-medicine induced haze. Because you all know part (a) was by far the least realistic of the required elements, I bring you…this recap of some of my favorite ways to wear green and green-ish through the ages, settings, seasons and stages of being not-yet-pregnant, barely-pregnant, hugely-pregnant and thankfully-not-pregnant-anymore.
*and I would love, love, love your suggestions on green pants. I tried those adorable tiny babypants from Target, but the pants-kryptonite of my waist-to-just-above-the-knee ratio proved their undoing (terrible pun intended). Have a wonderful Tuesday!
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- Doubleknit Blazer: Halogen via Nordstrom’s
- Dot-Matrix Dress: Target
- Belt (worn backwards): Forever 21
- Black Tights: HUE
- Brown Riding Boots: Franco Sarto via Zappos.com
- Teal Earrings: Mall vendor
When my late, great advisor in graduate school (the first time) thought I needed a little prompting to get going on a writing project (not that that ever happened. Ever. Of course not.), he would say, “[S.], the tempus is really starting to fugit on this one.” Or sometimes he’d just an e-mail with the subject heading, “the tempus is fugiting!” and a description of what I was supposed to be working on in the body of the e-mail. (Knowing now how little time he had left when he sent some of those e-mails, I wish I had spent more time just listening to him and less time frantically responding to those e-mails, but that somewhat cruel irony is better left for another day). It wasn’t really all that funny a way of trying to get me off the dime (again, that was never necessary! ever!), it was just one of those sort of classic things about him: that he was the kind of person who felt so strongly about your needing to meet a deadline that he had to express it partially in Latin.
But that time has come, now, on a number of projects, as I hurtle towards graduation (a word that never sounded so sweet). Time really is flying by, and there are days that I struggle to break through the deep procrastination that comes from not having a realistic plan for getting it all done on time and in a way that I’m proud of (note to Congress: your inability to resist the temptation to change federal law regarding religious refusals in health care is not helping. Settle down so I can finish writing, already!). But some days are better than others, and I’ve been glad to have some time during this “spring break” (hah!) to work in more uninterrupted blocks than I would normally be able to. We’ll get there, even if I have to just keep breathing through it sometimes. And who knows, being overdressed for a day in the library can’t hurt, right?
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- Black and Red Faux-Wrap Dress: Express, circa 1999
- Red Cardigan: Vintage Michael Kors, mommed
- Black Tights: HUE
- Black Croc Wedges: Stuart Weitzman via Bloomingdale’s
- Necklace: gifted
I didn’t plan it this way, but this outfit is doing the time warp in a serious way, blending a dress I got in eleventh grade with the first ever pair of “grown up shoes” I got when I had a job that could pay for food, heat and rent at the same time with a sweater that was the first of many workhorse items I’ve inherited from my mother. It’s one of the great—and continually surprising—things about clothes: I’m willing to bet every item in your closet has a story, and they come together in often-hilarious ways that reveal things about us. For example: if this outfit could talk, it would say, “yup! Still kind of into red. And still here. Really. If I were a person, I could have had a bat mitzvah by now, and I’m still in your closet.”
Setting aside for a moment the absurd age of this charming fire hazard of a garment aside (seriously, folks, the biblical prohibition on poly blends is there for a reason!), this last red-out look is another red-on-black combination. Instead of red on white and black, though, it’s red on wine and black, giving this red topper a slightly different kind of emphasis. And instead of using a neutral base to mute or calm a bright colored accent piece, here, I’m doubling down on the brightness, using the interplay between the sweater and the dress to downplay the slightly goofy pattern and make the bright sweater pop even more. It’s not a strategy for the faint of heart, but I liked the way it worked out here, making an outfit whose demure silhouette says “I know how to play by the rules” into something much more special.
Remixing a beloved and boldly-patterned dress can be a trick, no matter how versatile the piece originally seems. Drawn as I am to these items, after a few iterations, I often feel like I’ve run smack into the wall of cardigan-and-blazer rotation and am fresh out of new things to do. But it’s in the ability of these kinds of pieces to function both as blank canvases and as one-and-done standbys that their real value lies; as I was trying to get out the door this morning, knowing that I could combine this dress and a pair of black tights and end up having something to wear, no matter what else I did, gave me that little extra oomph to try something new, and end up wearing a 13-year-old dress in a way I’d never tried before. Partying, I suppose, like it was 1999.
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EBEW: We Go Together…at the Office
- Maroon Skirt: Kyla‘s closet sale
- Pink Knit Blouse: Banana Republic (2008)
- Tweed Cropped Blazer: Tracy Reese via Nordstrom’s (2004)
- Black Tights: HUE
- Black Croc Wedges: Stuart Weitzman via Bloomingdales
Happy Valentine’s Day (if you feel so moved!)! I couldn’t help but fall for this month’s Everybody Everywear theme of pink and red together, since I (a) adore the color red and (b) have apparently never met a pairing of tightly analogous colors that I couldn’t find a way to love. Laughing in the face of color-matching “rules,” I’ve worn red-based tight pairings on dates, at home, at work and school, while pregnant, while postpartum (and still wearing my maternity jeans). I’ve also waxed poetic about my love for these kinds of clashing-but-not-clashing color combinations, which, once you get used to them, can feel downright visually soothing.
This outfit is a version of red and pink together that would work even in a moderately conservative office. I wouldn’t wear it in an environment where I’d never seen anyone wear anything that wasn’t a black suit with a white shirt, but if I’d been there a while and had seen matched separates and the occasional texture or color walk by, I’d give it a whirl. While a brighter skirt would also have worked, I’ve chosen a darker shade here, which preserves the playfulness of the red + pink combo, but adds a touch of sophistication and makes it decidedly office friendly on days other than Valentine’s Day. I’m using the cropped blazer to add a little extra punch of formality (and let’s face it, it’s pretty cold outside), and to provide a kind of a decoy for the color blocking below: in a funny way, it serves the neat function of letting the bright elements in the outfit stand out and blend in at the same time.
Are brights and “clashing” colors a go in your workplace? Do you have a favorite color pairing or strategy for making brights work for work?
Never one to be left out of the party, baby M. decided to play along, as EBEW’s youngest participant. In fairness, she would like you to note that this was totally by accident (i.e., mom discovered as we were leaving that baby was wearing red and pink, too!), but also that ever since grandma bought her this adorable hot-pink-and-tomato-red jacket, she rocks tightly analogous color pairings almost every day. It was also one of those I-should-have-worn-a-raincoat spit up days, so this outfit lasted for approximately fifteen glorious minutes.
- Pink and Red Fleece Hoodie: Carter’s, gift from MIL
- Ballet Pink and White Striped PJs: Hanna Andersson, gift from my mom
- One of two kinds of socks that ever manage to stay on her feet: Target
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- Black Jersey Dress: Ann Taylor, endlessly remixed
- Tweed Asymmetric Blazer: Ralph Lauren, mommed
- Black Tights: HUE
- Black Boots: Born, gift from husband D.
- Warm enough weather to go without a coat in January: ??
After having gone on at some length last week, I’ll keep this post, which is yet another chapter in great saga of “what do you wear when a suit would be overkill,” brief. I went to lunch last week (at the home of the holy grail of oatmeal-raisin cookies*) with the judge I’m clerking for next year (perhaps the one person whose name will never, ever appear on this blog), the current clerks and one of my future co-clerks. It was a mostly social gathering; we talked holidays with small children and revisions on my note and fiction reading that I’ve mostly done between the hours of 3 and 5 a.m. But, social gatherings with employers are still gatherings with employers, which merit dressing a bit more thoughtfully than I would have for an ordinary day at school.
Because it was a predominantly social gathering, and with people who knew I was coming from school, a suit would have been overkill — at least a little bit. Here, I’ve taken advantage of the opportunity to be slightly less formal to wear boots, which I wouldn’t do in an extremely conservative office but which take the outfit to a slightly more fun, original spot. This much-loved blazer has become a go-to for occasions like this during the colder months. In the right weather, it can be worn without an overcoat; its inventive shape adds instant visual interest and punch to an outfit that still sends a message that I understand the requisite level of formality. Worn with a dress, the slightly shorter length helps balance out my long torso, all while defining a waist without looking sexualized. But what I love most about it is much more subtle: the way it makes me feel like me. I’ve never quite been able to pin down why, but this blazer is one of those items that makes me feel like my most powerful, confident, inspired self. Maybe because it was one of the first things I owned for work that wasn’t the same black suit from Banana Republic or J.Crew that every girl on the Hill has, or maybe because the fit was so unexpectedly perfect, but it’s remained a signature business piece for many years as a result, and represents a kind of lodestar in my work wardrobe for my personal breed of power dressing. It’s another great example of how our clothes become imbued with our own lived-in history, the way they take on meanings far beyond the surface image they present to others.
Do you have a favorite item lurking in your closet somewhere, one you consistently compare new purchases and ideas to? What makes it so special to you? Its shape? Its color? Its history? Where’d you get it?
*Local residents get five points for identifying said location.
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Hi Narrowly Tailored readers! Angeline from The New Professional here. While S. is resting peacefully with the bean (one can hope), she asked several bloggers to sound off on variations of a theme: adaptation.
Adaptation in professional dress can be prompted by a number of factors: job change (to a different position or a different company), office management turnover or major career change, such as a lay-off or resignation. If you’re staying in the same industry, your workwear may not change much from workplace to workplace, but leaving the office environment entirely? What do we do with that?
Let’s take into account why we dress professionally in the first place: it’s often required to some extent by our employer and we want to be taken seriously by our colleagues. For freelancers and entrepreneurs, the need to look professional extends beyond our home office or coffee shop spot—every interaction is a potential opportunity for networking and business development. That doesn’t mean you should be wearing your suits to Starbucks, but rather finding a professional-casual balance that works for you.
Your exact formula and preferences will vary based on your own style and the demands of the new work you’ve chosen, but here are some tips to get you started to looking polished and professional and grow your freelance career or business.
Do your research. You’ve probably done a bit of reconnaissance into your new field. What do others in your field wear? Are there any physical requirements that you should take into account (will you be on your feet much, getting your clothes dirty, etc.)? The worst outfit is always the one that is inappropriate for the situation, whether it’s overdone or underdone.
Mix and match. From my observation, freelancers tend to strike a balance between work and casual wear, since their days usually involve some business interaction and some working alone. Plus, with the elimination of a regular salary, you don’t want to be spending money you haven’t yet earned on new clothes. Not all business and casual wear will be able to make the transition, but you’ll be surprised at how much of it can.
- Dressing down business wear: Split up your suit sets and pair each separate with a more casual piece. Blazers with a dress, for example, or pencil skirts with a tee. Roll up your shirtsleeves and leave an extra button open over a cami or tee. Soften a trouser-based look with an embellished cardigan and open-toed shoes.
- Dressing up casual garb: Add polished accessories, shoes, and toppers (blazers, cardigans, jackets) to instantly dress up a casual look. Fit is key here…clothes should be flattering and fit your body well.
Be confident. This goes for any kind of dress code or outfit, but is even more important as a freelancer. Your work is your calling card, not your ability to follow an HR policy. Above all, how you dress be empowering to you. Your confidence in yourself will inspire potential clients to place their confidence in you.
Know your audience. While business wear could get you from 8-5, M-F in the office world, you have much more of an ability to adapt to your customer or client in freelance work. Don’t be afraid to bust out a suit if you’re headed to a corporate client or bring out some boots for a farm visit.
Continue adapting. Just as in a traditional office-based career, freelancers and entrepreneurs grow and advance in their careers. Don’t be afraid to tweak things when your business starts booming or when your clientele becomes more high-brow.
How do you strike a balance between casual and professional wear? What pieces do you find to be the most versatile? Do you have any other advice for first-time freelancers or entrepreneurs?
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Boring Outfits for Big Days
- Grey Ruched Cowl-Neck Dress: Gap Maternity
- Navy Pinstripe Blazer: Calvin Klein via Filene’s
- Black Not-so-Flats: Bandolino via ShoeWoo!
- Pearls: Mommed
The last few weeks of my pregnancy were, to say the least, eventful, as I raced to get ahead on my reading, complete a variety of law journal administrative tasks, get our house ready, and, oh, you know, prepare for our lives to be totally shaken up by our daughter’s arrival (along with a healthy dose of trying to coax her into arriving a little bit sooner, which obviously failed miserably!). In addition, I was going through the final stages of the hiring process for federal judicial clerkships for the year(s) following graduation, a process which would have been high intensity (and a little byzantine) even if I hadn’t been racing neck and neck between the official nationwide interview schedule and what seemed to be the Bean’s impending arrival.
This is, of course, not the most complicated or stressful or magical thing a woman has done in the last few days and weeks before giving birth; much as I might like to think it, I am not, in fact, a beautiful and unique snowflake. But, special or not, I trundled my way down to the courthouse, 279 days pregnant, to meet with a Very Important Judge and his current clerks and try to do some amount of credit to my past achievements and future promise. Unfortunately, I didn’t end up getting this particular job, but I was pretty excited about all the things that had to happen over the last two years to make my being considered for it a meaningful possibility.
So what do you wear to a job interview at more than nine months pregnant? Having tried so hard to avoid buying and wearing a maternity suit, I wasn’t about to start now (and certainly not for two hours of my life), so for this and a few other similar interviews, I used the dress+blazer strategy, sticking predominantly with neutrals and trying to emulate the “interview suit” look as best I could. Under ordinary fake-a-suit circumstances, I’d be trying to avoid wearing a suit for the purpose of wearing something a little bit more “out there,” but here, the goal was to blend in as much as possible, particularly since the other candidates I expected to run into and be compared to in the process were . . . well, not similarly situated! This actually is the blazer from my “interview suit,” and I love the way it brings out the blues in this blue-grey dress, and the way the proportions work on my very-pregnant form. Had I known how warm it was going to be in the courthouse, I might have gone with a black dress in a slightly thicker fabric (like this one), but hindsight is 20/20. I thought about heels, but decided to go with flats: sometimes, you need your clothes to get out of your way, and with everything else I had to worry about, I didn’t want falling over to be one of them!
Have you ever interviewed for a job in . . . unusual circumstances? If you had the option to avoid an “interview suit,” what would you wear to a job interview?
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First Impressions: Resource Roundup
This post is part of a series on dressing for new (or temporary) office jobs. See the whole series.
I’m wrapping up my series on dressing for a new work environment this week, but before I do, I wanted to share a few of my favorite links from around the web on both building a work-oriented wardrobe and on staying true to your identity and sense of style at the office. This list is by no means exhaustive, but a few things that have caught my eye and inspired some good thinking on my part — and not necessarily because I agreed with all of them!
- Sally’s fabulous recent posts on “intermediate style” and dressing down your work wardrobe at Already Pretty.
- Kat Griffin of Corporette’s guide to wardrobe essentials for the summer associate or intern. This list is pretty prescriptive and YMMV outside of big New York institutional office jobs, but it’s worth thinking about and interrogating yourself.
- Likewise, Kat’s list of what *not* to wear in these settings is worth a look.
- This thread from the Careerist on the class implications of office dress—and what messages your clothes do or don’t send to your employer about your professional goals, with all its somewhat disturbing implications.
- Academichic’s collection of posts on interview attire.
- Amy of BiblioMOMia’s post on dressing with power, confidence and originality while presenting at a professional conference.
- Rosel’s love letter to one of her work wardrobe essentials, a pair of black trousers that were initially outside her comfort zone.
Have a favorite link I should add to this list? Let me know! Leave a comment below, or send me an e-mail or a tweet!
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First Impressions: Essential Pieces and Shopping Strategies
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Last week, we talked about navigating the office dress code in a new environment, including the often-mystifying differences between the “official” dress code and the on-the-ground sartorial norms. This week, we’ll talk about what to do with those guidelines: some thoughts on shopping strategies, accessorizing, and “essential” wardrobe items.
First, a few things to consider:
- Your time horizon and repeat tolerance: If you’re just acquiring a few things to get you through a summer job or internship, your perspective on what kinds of things you should have and what quality they need to be will be different than if you’re starting a permanent job after leaving college or graduate school. Likewise, the size (and fashion-awareness) of your office, the number of people you come into contact with every day, and your personal preferences will affect the percentage of the time you want to spend wearing (or feeling like you’re wearing) different outfits.
- Your budget. This goes pretty much without say.
- What the dress code in your office is really like.
- Other considerations that restrict the size of your capsule wardrobe. For example, my dear friend K. commuted from New Haven to D.C. every week so she could see her husband on the weekends while we were working over the summer, and didn’t have access to anything you could meaningfully call a closet for much of the duration. It didn’t prevent her from having great style, but it did place some obvious restrictions on how many pieces she had in her rotation.
- Any particular rules in your office regarding accessories. Your office may or may not allow peep-toed shoes, dangling earrings, etc. Accessories rules tend to be ones that can be bent more easily, but your mileage may vary.
A few truly essential pieces:
- Your interview suit. Should be as basic as can be (and therefore almost endlessly remixable). Ideally, you have multiple pieces (e.g., pants and skirt that match the same blazer, or a skirt and a shift dress).
- For goodness sake, a pair of sensible shoes. This is just common sense, but particularly true in the law firm/consulting summer program context. People will take you places, you will walk a lot on terrible city sidewalks, and there is nothing professional about desperately sore feet or heels that have been demolished in sidewalk grates. (Take it from someone who ruined a pair of brand new heels on the first day of my summer program as a 1L walking halfway across the city to go to lunch with my mentor. Sigh.)
- One, possibly two, pairs of basic “office” pumps. These are the shoes that match your interview suit and, hopefully, virtually everything else in your work capsule wardrobe. Maybe not the most exciting pair of shoes ever, but the ones that will be unobjectionable in virtually all settings in which you think you’ll find yourself.
- A day dress (or two) in a solid fabric that you really, really love. There are two schools of thought here about neutral or colored, but this is another question for common sense and good judgment about where you fit in your professional universe. Ideally, this is also a dress that can go under a blazer of some kind, or a cardigan, or be worn by itself when the occasion calls for it.
- In a more formal office, a second and possibly a third suit. How many suits you need will depends on the availability of suit alternatives in your office and your closet, other things that might be considered business formal, and how many pieces you’re able to acquire in a given suit.
- In a business casual office, a few key separates that hold up well and play well with a variety of colors. Depending on your preference, this may mean more skirts or pants, but should probably also include one additional blazer, perhaps in a more distinctively colored or textured fabric.
Different approaches to building a work wardrobe:
- The cohesive capsule. If you’re really starting from scratch, and you’re confident about the dress norms in the office you’ll be working in, and your budget permits this approach, you might consider acquiring a capsule wardrobe that all more or less fits together all at once. Personally, I tend to struggle with this one, mostly because I like being able to react to changes in my circumstances (and my mood!) as I get used to a new environment.
- The gradual approach. Just like it sounds, this one works best if you know your closet better than you know the environment you’ll be working in: figure out what you’ll need for the first week or two, and then fill in the gaps as you get to know the environment and what your peers and superiors are wearing.
- The not-so-conformist approach. Riskier, but an option when you’re (a) working in a smaller office and won’t be part of a large, identifiable peer group, (b) already have a significant stable of workplace-appropriate items in your closet and (c) have a longer time horizon. Edit a capsule of items that fit these genres, but don’t necessarily all fit together quite so tightly. Want to try to be a little nonconformist but still blend in where necessary? My favorite place to start is with your shoes.
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First Impressions: Navigating the Office Dress Code
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Almost every office has one.
No, not that slightly nosy coworker who somehow manages to know everything about everyone’s lives (those too, though). A dress code. Unfortunately, for a document that’s intended to provide clarity of expectations ahead of time, the average office dress code is riddled with unwritten (and often unspoken) rules and norms. So, how do you develop a strategy for navigating appropriate dress in these muddy waters? Here are a few questions to consider in assembling a “capsule wardrobe” of work essentials.
- Does your dress code define office dress as “business casual” or “professional attire” or ”business formal”? Obviously, you’ll have greater flexibility in a business casual environment.
- If the dress code says business casual, does it really mean it? For example, at many law firms, the dress code will say something along the lines of, “our office is business casual, but many attorneys prefer to wear formal business attire most days.” Pay attention to the norms that appear to apply to your peers, rather than the blanket guidelines for the office as a whole.
- Even if the dress code is business casual, will you be in situations that otherwise require more formal attire? Even in a business casual office, if you’re a lawyer, you have to go to court sometimes. Or if you’re a consultant, you have to meet with clients. Or [insert important outside-the-office obligation here]. How often do these kinds of settings come up? Do you usually know ahead of time, or will you need to keep an emergency suit stashed in your office?
- How does your office define formal business attire? In some offices, formal business attire would include a dress (usually with sleeves) on its own, without a jacket or other topper. If this is you, consider investing in a few (remixable) dresses that can be worn on their own. If formal business attire means you’re wearing a jacket but not necessarily a suit, consider what kinds of suit alternatives might be appropriate.
- If you’ll be working during the summer, does your office support the Right to Bare Arms? If it doesn’t, is it just a “no tanktops” rule, or are short sleeves also considered inappropriate? Are jackets and cardigans equally acceptable arm coverings?
- What are rules about footwear? Are peep-toes permissible? How high is too high? Are flats famed or frowned upon?
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